Sunday, September 20, 2009

GREEK MYTHOLOGY HELL

Are you familiar with Greek Mythology? I realize I may be asking some you to remember as far back as middle school, but try.
Remember the stories about hell or hades? I remember thinking how cool it was that the punishments fit the crime. And they were always so individualized. You're own private hell.

Sisyphus, who rolls the rock up the hill just to have it roll over him and have to start over.

The Danaids, sisters trying to fill a bottomless barrel.

Prometheus, chained to a rock and had his liver eaten by a vulture every day just to grow it back and start all over again.

So I was trying to sweep the floor for my baby. So that it would be clean for her pudgy little hands and feet while she pads around the house on them. My mistake? Trying to do this while the baby is awake and uncontained. She just followed me around, playing in the dirt pile. I pick up the pile, she'd run her fingers through the broom. I'd get her out of the pile and the broom, and she'd go and sit when I now need to move the couch back to.

The dirtiest I've ever seen her inside our house is while I was trying to clean it for her.
Go figure.

PAT & MINDY VISIT

To the untrained eye, it might look like Joey is smiling cause' Pat is holding her. Actually, she is smiling at Mindy.



Dude Mom, bright light.

Friday, September 18, 2009

JOEY MADE THE NEW TIMES



Above is the link to the NEW TIMES web page that shows the picture of Joey & I at John Martin's on Monday night for the BURGIES, the Burger awards. Chris, Joey & I went with a bunch of other YELPERS and Maria gave out an award.


The sliders sampler was great. Beef, Buffalo, Turkey & Lamb, one of each.


I don't know if she was in a printed copy of the newspaper, but she is in the slideshow of pics in the online article.



TIME ARTICLES

The September 21 edition of TIME Magazine (Cover: OUT OF WORK IN AMERICA) read my mind. There were some great articles about community service and individual responsibility. Here are the links:

THE RESPONSIBILITY REVOLUTION - When you shop, does your conscious come with you? Think beyond buying green products, do you consider the company that makes the products you buy? Their treatment of workers in factories in 3rd world countries? Their environmental practices? TIME Polls say most Americans do and that businesses with a "halo" around their heads are seeing profits for it.

25 RESPONSIBILITY PIONEERS (You need to keep clicking next to see the other 25 people and corporations)

'A SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY' - This is an exclusive interview with the president and 1st lady about volunteerism and social responsibility. The online version is much longer then the printed version in the magazine.

NEW WAYS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE - "If you've got at least 5 minutes, 5 dollars or 5 friends, here are some ways to do some good." This article was only okay in my opinion. There were better examples they could have mentioned, some of which I mentioned in my post a few days ago. But the concept is important.


So what are you waiting for? America needs you. Go help someone.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

THIS LITTLE PIGGY


I'd like to start off by saying Dude, you can't make this s#$% up.
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Only Mark can.
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So, Mark gave Joey a bath last night. As he was dressing her for bed, he tried to play "This Little Piggy" with her like I always do. Except he doesn't know the words. The following is a close as I can come to what he said. It is not word for word, but more like a feel. It is not as good as the original.
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The voice he used was cheesy Italian. Think Enzo the baker from Godfather.
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Noowwww, we have em' some piggies! These a piggies, they a gonna do some s#$%. Thisa little piggy... I don't know, she a went a some where. Shopping. Market. Somewhere.
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Thisa little piggy, she don't ah eat ah anything. No, wait. we're ah not there yet! Thisa piggy, she ah don't go no where. The other little piggy ah went ah shopping, thisa one stay home don't do shiiiiiittttt!
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Thisa little piggy, she ah ate meat. Beef. She hada some roasta beef. And she likey it. It taste Gggoooood!
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And thisa little piggy, I don't know, she ah did crystal meth. Yeah that some f#$% up shiiiittt! (Accent changed to Ghetto for a second.)
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And thisa little piggy said "I'm outta here" and ran all ah da way ah home. That's it. THE END!
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Joey just stared at him.

JOEY'S NEW CONVERITBLE

Grandpa bought himself a birthday present.
I know, I know. What, no Porshe? No Corvette?
Well he still has the corvette, and he wanted his new toy to have a big enough back seat so he could carry Joey with him. (Also so that I could borrow it and carry Joey with me.)
So he bought this Mercedes Convertible.
So the question becomes, who looks better in it?




The answer is Joey, of course!







YOU KNOW YOU WANT ONE

We had T-shirts made.
Mind you, everyone takes their turn being boat bitch; it's a guy thing too.
So when all our extended family and friends come to Craven events they show up wearing a RIDE FOR KIDS or SNAPPLE t-shirt.
I'm taking orders for this one now.
(Next year we will have a Caribbean lobster and not a Maine lobster on the front.)



Wednesday, September 16, 2009

SURFER GIRL

Joey loves her life jacket.
She loves how it tastes, anyways.
Joey's 1st waveruuner ride. She really really loved it!
When I took her out, we got off and swam around a bit too. Her life jacket really is amazing. Don't worry, Uncle Chris came with so I wasn't floating in the middle of the ocean with a baby.
My little Surfer Girl.
I hosed down the dock so it was nice an cool and had less little pebbles on it and let her splash around. She loved it.
She loves her puppies. She likes Cassie more, cause' her fur is soft & thick and nice to pet. But C.J. is better at playing.
I wonder if Mommy will let me put my wet, dirty, sunblock lotioned hand on her camera? (The answer was no.)
I don't understand, why can't I go tubing?
I wanna go tubing! I wanna go tubing!


Maybe if I smile real big and make those funny noises she likes, Mommy will let me go tubing. (answer: I'm crazy, but not THAT crazy. No, not quiet yet.)

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

HELPING OTHERS

I’m going to get on my soap box now.

Nobody takes the time to help others anymore. And I don’t mean your family and friends, that isn’t an option, that is a REQUIREMENT. Not enough people take the time to help a stranger, help the world, make a difference.

I think it’s unacceptable.

If you go through life, completely absorbed in you and your bubble alone, you are beyond selfish. There is more to the world then you and your family. To help no one, to go through life like that, is to be morally bankrupt.
If you take the time to go to Church on Sunday, trust me, God would much rather you skip ever other Sunday and go in your neighborhood and do some actual good. Instead of sitting on your but listening to the good that Jesus and the other saints did.

Give blood.
Join PTA.
Help out at a homeless shelter.
Write or e-mail your congressman.
Volunteer at an animal shelter.

Not everything takes a lot of time. Sign up for action alert e-mail from one of your favorite causes. (You need to have a favorite cause first) Humane Society. Planned Parenthood. BIOGEMS. NOW. Those are some examples. It takes all of 30 seconds to type your name on the bottom of a pre-made letter that they send you that you can then e-mail to your senator. They even can tell you who that is and what their address is. They really make it easy for you to get involved.

I HATE it when people say they don’t have time. If you don’t have 5 minutes to help someone or some cause beyond your circle of family and friends, then you need to take a good look at your life. Prioritize. You should have 5 minutes to do some good. Granted, maybe you're just going through a rough time right now, but if you NEVER have time... something is wrong. Fix it.

I’m not saying that all of your free time should be spent doing good. You can tell from the pics that I post that I’m having a blast. And I admittedly have been doing less since I had Joey. But I still manage to do something! In fact, here is some of the stuff I do to help others or the environment without ever leaving my house.

1) I have signed up for a lot of action alerts. I e-mail my representatives all the time.
2) Mark & I recycle EVERYTHING! Think, the next time you go to throw that yogurt cup in the garbage.
3) We are committing ourselves to replacing at least one meat dinner a week with a vegetarian one. (That means at least 2 meals, counting leftovers.) America’s addiction to meat, beef in particular, is unsustainable, unhealthy, and horrible for the environment. Here is a link to the recent TIME article about it. Now, I’m not saying we are going to become vegetarians. God or nature (whichever you prefer) gave me canine teeth; I’m supposed to eat meat. And I really enjoy it. But that doesn’t mean I need to eat it every day. I love strawberry cheesecake too, same principal.
4) Using green cleaning products, saving energy, hanging clothes out to dry (in the non rainy months) all lesson our impact on the world and help to save our precious resources.

Now let’s talk about things you can do to help your community. If you live in Miami, sign up to get e-mails from HANDS ON MIAMI. They are a volunteer organization that does all sorts of things around Miami on various days and at different times. Mostly high school kids who need the hours show up, but as long as you want to do some good, that is all it takes. I’ve helped paint a day care in Little Haiti. I helped clean up a Girls Scout Camp after a hurricane. I helped paint the support poles under I95 as part of a beautification project. And the great thing is, you invite your friends and family to join you and you are now multi tasking. Do a good dead, and spending quality time with friends and family.
Then there is RIDE FOR KIDS every January or February. And Baynaza around April or May.

You don’t have to do much, but please do something.

GET INVLOVED!

Okay, I’m done for now. If you took the time to read, thanks.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

WELCOME EMMA KATE!

Congrats to Becca & Dan on their new baby girl! Emma was born mid morning at 8lbs 6oz.
Becca had been to the hospital on Friday for her pre-op (they was a planned c-section for Monday) but Emma just couldn't wait! Becca went started labor around 2 this morning. Her actual due date was my birthday, Sept 20. Which, I don't like to share. Already too many other Sept b-days in the way!
So they cut Becca this morning and everything went fine. She is nursing, of course. (Those big old things got to be good for something!)
Her mom was flying in today so she could be there for the delivery on Monday. Oops. She missed it because SOMEONE was in a hurry. Now Luke is a big bro.
For those of you who are friends with Becca on FACEBOOK, Dan is posting updates on Becca's page. Follow there.
CONGRATS AGAIN!


P.S.
Joey wants to know when Emma can come play?

ICE SKATING IN SOCKS

Friday, September 11, 2009

ALL I WANT ... IS MY TWO FRONT TEETH!

Please overlook the displeased face. Focus, instead, on the 2 bottom front teeth that have broke through.
FINALLY! Yeah!
They broke together this past Sunday morning.


Of course, she is far from finished on the teething front and continues to find new things to stick in her mouth.
Some fit better then others.




UNCLE CHRIS BABYSITS

Joey really enjoys it when Uncle Chri babysits. They are on similar maturity levels and so play nicely together.

LABOR DAY WEEKEND IN THE KEYS

So this a group photo from Sunday. We spent the long weekend in the keys and had a labor day weekend / Grandpa's birthday party. Cooked up a lamb in a China box on Saturday. I always love that. Did some snorkeling, fishing, wave running, canoeing, volleyballing and hanging out. Don't play the 80's version of SCENE IT with Maria. I mean, unless you like getting beat, some people are into kinky stuff.
Group photo

GREAT Uncle Tom & Joey

Teta Vesna & Joey

Apparently Grandpa never learned that rule about not shaking up babies.

Joey gave him a lesson... all down the side of his face!



And she wasn't bothered a bit by it!

Who me? Couldn't be!



HELPING DADDY IN THE KITCHEN



Joey loves to be in the kitchen. She particularly likes to help load the dishwasher. She pushes and pulls the rack in & out.


She didn't even hit her head. It is amazing how adept she is at falling. It's almost graceful, if falling could be graceful.

PUTTING THE CARRIAGE IN FRONT OF THE HORSE

1ST BLACK EYE ;(

This happened 2 Fridays ago now. She had pulled herself up onto the magazine rack, a favorite of hers, and when she fell, she caught the corner of the rack with the top of her eye lid. Didn't even make her eye red, just the eye lid. She bumped her nose in a separate incident.


The doctor told me I was gonna raise a black & blue child!






It doesn't look so bad when her eye is open.




Mark loves this picture. He thinks it is the best picture of Joey I've ever taken. He ran into the other room to pull out the picture below. He thinks they look alike here.
I disagree on the best picture ever part, but I do see the family resemblance.



Mark's baby picture.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

THE ENERGIZER BABY

So Joey LOVES to stand now. She can't crawl across a room without stopping to pop up in the middle of it. And she is so happy about it too. She knows she done good!

THE COMPUTER IS BACK!

Sorry no posts lately, Mark took the computer to work to have the tech guy look at it. Just plugged everything back in this evening.
May the catch up posting begin!

Monday, August 31, 2009

COMMENTARY ON PREVIOUS POSTED ARTICLE

You may have never heard of a glioma until Ted Kennedy got sick and died from it.
I had.
My little brother, Jimmy, died of a gliobastoma multi form when he was 15 in 1999. (I may have spelled something wrong in that)

In the recent months I heard from Kennedy haters about what a wonderful place this would be had he never been born. "His father should have shot that on the headboard instead!" That is a direct quote.
I have also heard all the wonderful things he did, bills he supported, that made life better for millions of Americans.
If he did nothing else besdies bring attention to this diesase by dying from it, I will hold a tender place in my heart for this otherwise lowlife man. But that is me. And this is personal.
Glioma aside, I think he was a pretty sleasy, crooked, worthly guy (can't use the word MAN, because you have to have held a real job at least ONCE in your life you be considered a REAL MAN or WOMAN).
Any of the good that came from him being a representative could have been just as easily acomplished by some other good Democrat holding that office.

Back to the article:
Jimmy had surgery to remove as much of the tumor as they could on Sept 3, 1997. He died on Feb 20, 1999. That is about a year and a half (18 months). The article says that the trials so far have dramatically increased life expectancy. What is dramatic? Months? Years? Quality time, or hospital time? The article says that this new drug plays well with others, and doesn't have as bad of side effects. I would love to read a more in depth article or report on this new drug.
Of course I don't give a rat's ass that it was developed in Cuba, no should it matter. I am beyond saddened that thousands of children per year have missed the oppurtunity to benifit from this drug because of political delay. Children in China were being treated before American children. Being born and raised in Miami, I'm so tired of hearing about big bad Cuba and I  think that opening dialouge and trade with Cuba, ending the embargo, is a good idea.

I cried when I read this article. But I was happy too. Happy that we are one step closer to keeping another family from having to lose a child to this ugly, aggresive form of cancer.

One step closer.

CUBAN CANCER DRUG UNDERGOES RARE U.S. TRIAL

BY JOHN DORSCHNER


jdorschner@MiamiHerald.com

For the first time since Fidel Castro took power in Cuba over a half-century ago, a drug developed by the Communist regime is going through clinical trials in the United States.

The drug nimotuzumab is designed to target cancer cells including those in rare and deadly types like glioma, the brain cancer that killed Sen. Ted Kennedy. A researcher at the University of Florida, where one trial is already in progress, calls the drug ``exciting, interesting.''


The hitch: Even if trials prove successful, nimotuzumab could not be sold in the United States because 20 percent of the company holding the license is owned by the Cuban government.

``We're in the business of developing drugs,'' said David G.P. Allan, chief of YM Biosciences, based in Canada. ``We could care less about the political side.''

YM Biosciences owns 80 percent of CIMYM, the company that has the rights to develop nimotuzumab in North America, Europe, Japan and other places. The other 20 percent is owned by the Center of Molecular Immunology, the biotech lab in Havana that developed the drug.

Given by injection, nimotuzumab is already approved for marketing in 20 countries, including India and China, where the licensing was done directly by Cuba, not YM. It is not approved in North America, Europe or Japan, but almost 20 trials are in progress.

Amy Smith, a pediatric neuro-oncologist at the University of Florida, said the theory is that nimotuzumab works by attacking epidermal growth factor receptors, shutting off the growth of cancer cells.

Smith said early studies in Europe indicate the drug showed considerable promise in prolonging the lives of children who have inoperable brain stem glioma. Even with radiation, those children generally survive only eight to 15 months.

To test the Cuban drug in the United States, YM needed an exception from the embargo by applying to the Department of the Treasury's Office of Foreign Assets Control -- a process that Allan called ``slow and formal.''

Other companies have done this -- Smithkline Beecham for a Cuba-made meningitis vaccine, and CancerVax for a cancer vaccine. In both cases, they obtained the necessary Treasury permission but after research decided not to do clinical trials.

For nimotuzumab, YM received approval in 2006 for trials involving children with inoperable brain cancer. Those tests are still progressing. Results are expected next year.

Several drugs in the same class as nimotuzumab are already approved, including Eli Lilly's Erbitux. These types of drugs do not lead to miracle cures, said Allan, but can help extend life by allowing chemo and radiation therapies to be more effective. YM maintains that nimotuzumab is superior to others in its class because it alone does not lead to toxic skin conditions.

Erbitux has a North American market of more than $1 billion a year, Allan said, and is used with mixed results on a wide range of cancers. For inoperable brain cancer cases, the U.S. market is about 5,000 patients -- not a large population for a drug manufacturer, especially since treatments could cost $10,000 to $50,000 per patient.

That's why YM Biosciences went back to the Treasury and asked to import the Cuban drug to test on patients with all sorts of cancers. That approval came earlier this month.

Not all the nimotuzumab news has been positive. In March, the European Medicines Agency rejected an application to market the drug, listing 27 major objections, including ``major deficiencies in the control, consistency and validation of the drug substance'' at the Havana manufacturing plant.

Allan said the application was made by a European company that had sub-contracted with YM and was ``based on impoverished data'' which was bound to be rejected. Next time, the application will be much sounder, he said.

U.S. trials are expected to take three or four years. If the trials succeed, YM would need a change in the embargo law.

Would a life-extending drug be worth an embargo exception? Ana Carbonell, chief of staff for Rep. Lincoln Diaz-Balart, issued a statement Friday, saying the Republican congressman from Miami ``supports all efforts to find cures for cancer.

``The medical trials for this drug will take several years. Diaz-Balart hopes that by then the Cuban people will be free.''

Thursday, August 27, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY!

What's the secret to growing old gracefully?
Just don't grow up.
Here are some pictures of my dad playin' hard & workin' hard. Those are the 2 things he does best. (Besides spoiling his children)




Monday, August 17, 2009

3 STEPS = CRUISING

I use volleyball rules. It needs to go over the net 3 times to count as a volley. Well, she moved her feet in a forward motion for right, left and then right again. That is cruising. She has actually had a longer volley going, we just didn't catch it on camera.

WATCH OUT! SHE'S MOBIL!

BURDINES BABY


There is a florida baby if I ever saw one!
Maybe even a little Cubanish... but it's okay.

Aye, Que Lindas!

WHERE'S THE BABY?

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Can you find the baby in the bubbles?



There she is!

I SCREAM, YOU SCREAM, WE ALL SCREAM FOR ICE CREAM!